The Balm is The Tender Process

I watched David and Sarah in their workshop last Tuesday. There was no grand audience, no gallery opening, and certainly no filtered “aesthetic” being chased. There was only the rhythmic skritch-skritch of sandpaper against raw oak and the earthy smell of sawdust that seemed to anchor the entire room in presence–a singleness of purpose. It was a peaceful and grounded moment.

Lately, I have noticed how frequently people refer to “making it” as if life were a series of finish lines. It is rare that we recognize the here and now as having reached that status. We always seem to need to accomplish one more thing before we accept that we have indeed “made it” and arrived at the finish line. But standing in that workshop, I realized the magic wasn’t in the beautifully crafted finished chair sitting in the corner. The magic was in the silent synthesis of two people, working in concert, nearly extensions of each other, summoning form and function from cuttings of wood. Few words were exchanged between them, yet the quiet satisfaction in the process was palpable.

In our “more is more” world, we are taught to hurry through the process to get to the result. We want the house, but we resent the mortgage. We want the garden, but we hate the weeding.

But Ordinary Magic tells a different story. It suggests that:

Connection can be quiet: It’s found in the quiet working side-by-side with one another toward a simple goal.

Process is the prize: The careful thoughtful processes of our daily lives—the chores, the commutes, the quiet coffee—is where the texture of our happiness actually lives.

David told me, “We found that the most valuable things we have built are not the chairs, but the quiet fulfillment of working with our hands and with each other, deepening our connection and honoring the earth for the richness and beauty of the wood that has sprung from her forests.”

Enough is a felt sense: It’s that moment when you step back, wipe the dust from your hands, and realize that what you have created with your own talents and time is exactly what you need—it is the soothing balm of contentment.

Maybe today we can stop looking for the spectacular finale and start finding the magic simply in the processes of our ordinary days.

What have you been observing? Where have you sparked pieces of contentment for yourself? Share your journey in the reply below.


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